...postcard from singapore...

.... this is my second trip to singapore; the first being in i think 2003 to attend my cousin's wedding in marriot and visiting his one million dollar apartment with a beautiful view in yishun. i was so excited that i am going to singapore again; the second time and i long to visit the place more often. farnee! i visited bangkok more than i have went over the causeway! singapore is a fine city. wakakaz. well, i would love to go back there again. have not experienced enough of singapore yet. heck, i have not even seen sentosa!...

...passage of time...

...based on a true story about love, betrayal and forgiveness...

a woman looking back into her life...once a young girl who had to give up her dreams who later became a wife to a man chosen by her parents...her life unfolds a tale of triumphs and turbulence...mei lye is the second daughter in the household. she is forced to quit school to stay home to help her mother bake kueh and massage her in the evenings. mei lye is the second daughter in the lim family. she recounts memories of her

childhood how life seems unfair for her

...neo swee lin with her potrayal of old mei lye...

one day, her parents arrange to meet the matchmaker, auntie lee, in search for a husband for their eldest daughter. however mel lye is the chosen bride as her sister is too skinny for anyone’s liking. she is married to eng. she looks forward to a better life with a husband and having borne a son, she is treated much more favourably even by her mother.

...everybody loves auntie lee...

however mei lye discovers eng has a dark secret; he could not marry the one he truly loved. eng not being able to marry the one he truly loves, he explores the love of other ladies to ease his pain. mei lye younger sisters, both unmarried, envy her good fortune of having a husband and the material blessings of life. but for mei lye – the reality of married is far from ideal.

...who is the real auntie lee......nick shen and the b***h...

mei lye learns to come into terms with losing her mother, followed by one of her children and then finding out more about her husband’s philandering ways. her sisters find eng’s way shocking and feel relieved that they never got married after all. eventually, eng sees the folly of his ways but mei lye finds it hard to forgive him, until one day when her daughter and grandson visit her.

...nick shen's love life...

mei lye learns the perals of wisdom on forgiveness and letting go of the past from someone so wise who opens the door her heart to love and peace once again.

...cast members of the passage of time...

i am not much of a fan of musical performance; having released my free tix of chicago and phantom for a good nite rest on my bed. anyway, the singaporean calls it gundu and we call it stupid, but somehow i was attracted to this passage of time. maybe i so wanted to see pck’s ah ma in real action on stage. my seat was extremely close to the stage. (but i did enjoyed the jubilee show is vegas; of course i paid usd75 for watching close to nude male and female trotting on stage with pieces of cloth equivalent to my premier tissue paper.)

anyway, passage of time starred 2 mediacorp artistes (neo swee lin and nick shen); and a whole lot of volunteers who spent their evenings in rehearsals and practices for ages and months. that indeed took a whole lot of effort and determination.

this musical taught me one simple truth; the truth about forgiving and letting go. the burning sensation in me caught fire the day d’hand shook the pillars of my house; broke the silence of the earth and torn the world apart beyond recognition. the only thing i saw was mara’s daughter seducing me. my life was devastated. passage of time; though on an unrelated story line all together, taught me how to forgive someone and let it go. and because i can forgive you. i am able to let go...

...happy birthday boss...

...today is BOSS's birthday. wakakaz. who's the boss? boss said, birthday is just another day that is celebrated with friends. boss's birthday was celebrated in a steaming hot boat with lots of lips burning chilli padi sensation and dry throat syndrome. wakakaz. boss! happy birthday...

...key to success birthday...

...HAPPY BIRTHDAY SUCCESS...

whats the key to success? i wonder...

...u've been bitched!!!...

...you've been bitched!!!. wakakaz. who sneeze non stop yesterday. that means, you've been bitched! it was our very first group bitching session fy2008. our president was with us the whole nite though he came late. yea, you've been bitch! and that is our tagline. we've bitched almost all the things we could find to bitch about. not that it is a pleasurable thing to do, but it was just pure farnee. our president has the most unique way of bitching. we stuffed ourselves with balls and eggs throughout the whole session and sweat it out with lots of burning hot news on the shelves of who's with who now and who is next. interestingly our current active president has alot to offer in terms of latest happenings as well. our outgoing president has suggested a monthly coffee-latte bitching session to help each other improves our kpi. wakakaz. the session was then adjourned to sidewalk cafe for a late nite coffee-latte session to chill out till the wee hours of the morning. slept 3.30am.

...triple one eight...

...congratulations to a dear friend on his e-day...

we were having dinner together the nite before (his b-nite) and chatted for a while. due to his next morning e-day ceremonies, we had to let him off early; of cos we do not want him have panda eyes. it was great to catch up again with him. all the best dear friend...

...swift success...

...been long time since i dated success. the last was when i just returned from my japan trip. no wonder la, not so successful lately. but this week i dated success after such a long long silent break. i gotta be successful again. of course this happens when i found out about success's new success model. so kiasu. then purposely go findout more of the success model that he has been practising. super sexy mocca dark color fat-assed bulky look. but i like. and of course i get to testdrive the new success model. wakakaz. still dreaming of my own success model...

...regular bitches...

...fulfilling our promises; kev, wt and me decided to chill out regularly for bitching session. so today we finally decided on a venue nearest to our offices; mv. our usual curve is abit too far. and so, we went for dinner and proceeded to chilis to chill out. i ordered mango juice while kevin and wt got some fosters and sa beer. the waiter was staring at me; mango juice? wakakaz. yea, mango juice. and later apple juice and mango juice again. wakakaz. the weird one out mango juice with 2 friends holding beer! bitching session was great. and we will definitely make it back there to bitch again and update each other on the latest happenings. these days bitching has been such a pleasurable activity that we have caused many to sneeze. my gawd, and bitching is pleasurable. gotta stop it. mebbe we should have mental sparring instead...

...coincident friend...

...a fren, ty loves to talk about coincidence. according to him most of the things he has been thru and is going thru right now is a matter of coincidence. and of course coincidentally, wakakaz, makes me wonder about the coincidences in life.

been a long long while since i met this good friend of mine. kevin asked me out to have dinner with ruben. apparently ruben wanted to know more about business intelligence stuff and analytics thingy; thus the dinner. met at seed cafe to chat. ruben and girlfriend were with already in seed cafe waiting for kevin and me cos both of us stomach gatal, went and makan first in little penang because kevin wanted something light. and i wanted something cheaper le. was great to catch up again after such a long time. apparently he grew back to his usual size since i last met him in incovar in fgs where he was super thin and down to his bones. now better adi since he eats “dinner” daily now. wakakaz. ruben is a friend of full coincidence. intro by joey through msn, the coursemate of kevin and taimeng both working in iitc (that time le), ruben applied for a job in iitc. but a week before that, iitc already hired to fill the position and the person hired is kevin. and that is how we got to know each other. pretty amazing and a real coincidence...

...happy birthday...

...happy birthday...

...j's babyphat collection...

...presenting the j's babyphat collection...

...first in line is the ever seducing look that mommy loves so much, the sexy nien-nien collection ...

...next we have the jR's towel collection and porridge-all-over-my-face look...

...finally the oh-so-manja and the bottle-feeding ultra sexy piece if u look in the eyes directly...

next j's babyphat collection will be out in march 2008. stay tune...

...u sexy thing...

...merry christmas and happy new year to me. i just gotta tempt myself and fulfill my desire. temptation and desires really kills man. you gotta see this. its slim and sexy. black and strikingly gorgeous. sleeky curves and the touch on its "m" and "o" are delusional...

...simple chatterbox...

...first day of the new year. a new start to many beautiful memories to come. spent the whole day chatting with a friend. it was just a simple day in the new year and exciting day to start the new year. chatting all the way. mebbe i am just a chatterbox. always chatting. but what a way to begin the 2008 with simple plans and simple mind and simple chat...