... beliefs minus actions II ...

...conform your actions to your beliefs the best you can, but never conform your beliefs to justify your actions, unless you have objectively found flaws in your beliefs...

going thru lives day in day out, we are bound to meet many types of people, encountered differing attitudes and habit of people. whatever we do or say is reflected in the eyes of the receivers; the person whom we are trying to communicate with. our actions and speech will the the determining point of how we are perceived by others. so, how does others perceive us?

imagine, you are dead! and you see people attending your funeral. and you see 3 category of people (parents, good frens and your colleagues) in the front giving an eulogy. what do you think they will say about you? have you thought of that? given some deep thoughts of what will i be to them?

what they will say about you is what they perceive you to be. it is how you portray yourself to others that allow them to perceive your goodself; of who you are and what you do.

how about who you are? you know best yourself. you know your inner deep self. your own thoughts, your own belief system. your trueself. do you think what those people would say about you will be the same as what you will say about yourself?

:: how others perceive you versus how you perceive yourself ::

is there any conflicts? if there is, WHY?

does this mean that what you believe of who you really are is not what you portray to others. why are we contractidicting our mind? or have you acquired the mind hypocrisy syndrome?

belief minus action

so, if given a chance to be reborn again and to change your life...WHAT WOULD YOU LIKE TO CHANGE?

because @ INCOVAR...we inspire...